Self-Partnering

Never depend. It brings you down. It will disappoint you. You will get excited and anxious about the ways of possibilities from people whom you might want in a specific way. You will dream about those imaginative incidents day in and day out. But you know what? It's not going to happen. Stop being in that bubble and stop wanting people to get the things done for you. They have other innumerable works to do. They have got their own lives like the way you do. Finding a similar interest and clicking with people with same intensity, depth and understanding is a rare phenomenon that might happen if you are lucky enough. That too, at the time when you want it to be may not occur. It will happen. But only when you are least expected of it in the most unexpected way. Do not wait for it to happen. Do your things and be happy. Nobody is supposed to provide you with ready-made happiness pill. If you want to be happy, go and get it yourself. It is a feeling that should trigger and found in. Never have I heard anyone saying that happiness is a outward thing. It is always a personal experience and private choice one makes. It flows into the surroundings after passing of the moment where one is fulfilled, contented and satisfied with the situation that individual is placed in. It is always about the process one indulges in to find peace, reviving the calmness of the soul irrespective of the external factors no matter what the kind it may be. It is very much important to understand the significance of life when living in a world that puts pressures in various kinds. Of all the deeds we do to make our lives better, most of the time we forget the purpose of doing these works, from where we have started, what was the trigger to do these actions, we forget many things. By being busy doing and competing in completing the tasks undertaken, our lives move on. It doesn't stop for anybody. No one knows where we are rushing to, to our deaths? What is the hurry? Rather why is the hurry? We are not enjoying the life in front of us. Then how are we going to enjoy the death that will struck us? Nobody escapes that reality. Everybody has to face it face-to-face. Futuristic people never living in the moment that is given to them but always fighting and letting the life go without even knowing its presence. People are unaware of the time, unconscious of the passing of lifetime. What is the guarantee that you will have the future you are preparing yourself for? Why don't you stop doing a thing because you don't enjoy doing it? If you are thinking that you are doing it for any reasons, what are you doing this for and most importantly why are you doing this to yourself? You should always be doing things that makes you happy and only those work that you do enjoy. There is no point in complaining if you have not made any attempt to make a living out of the life given. If you are complaining and victimising, you are fooling yourself. You are simply giving excuses for your laziness. Whom are you blaming? Life? Or the people around you? Nobody has given a perfect arena of living circumstances that put them into the exact place they wanted to be. You have to fight for it. You will have to fight in accordance to your value for it. Others may not understand you, but it is okay. They are not you. You have to do it because you feel that you have to do it and you accredit value to it. You don't have to prove anybody else. You don't have to explain anything. You don't have to convince anyone. You don't have to let you think that you have to make people understand what you are about and what are you. None understands you completely even if you try to tell everything you have been through. That's the reality. Your way of looking and your X factor is different from everybody on this universe. You are a unique person comprises of a combination of things and experiences incomprehensible for others. So, let it be and smile it off even you know that people around you are misunderstanding you. Life is so simple that sole thing one needs to do to make oneself contented is be your own genuine-authentic-real self in and out. There is no such rule that you have to get validation from anybody. Try to be your own self's partner. You cannot rely on others because, they might not be available for you when you need them the most. Enjoy your self-time. It makes you strong. It makes you independent. It makes you loving. It makes you kind. It makes you understand yourself better. It makes you understand the people around you better. You will find yourself listening. You will start observing. You will learn, unlearn and relearn and continue the process. It makes you a healthy person. It makes you a wealthy person, the kind of wealth nobody can steal from you. I am sure that you will not regret the time ever you spend on your own self. You will accept everything about yourself and start loving as you are. This love when full will overflow outward. People may or may not appreciate you. But you know what, only you know what you have been through and how you made it. Everyone does not deserve to know the story. You might fall. You will. But make sure that you rise again. Promise yourself that you will rise each and every time irrespective of the number of times you fall off. Never be adamant that people have to understand you.