Don't talk to me on a daily basis.
Don't talk to me on a daily basis. Most of the people, at least around me, I heard saying nobody is there consistently. But, I say, No, Don't talk to me on a daily basis. Because, that is good for you.
I don't remember me talking to somebody on a daily basis and being happy. All the good friends now I count are people with whom I talk once in a while and being happy about it. It doesn't mean that you do not care about each other. One is doing one's own things all day and I don't want to disturb them often. When I say so, I mean the same for me as well. Texting all day to quite a number of people and this same process if goes on for a number of days leads to nothing but draining of energy and lack of topics to engage, ultimately to avoid talking to that person. I have experienced that kind. It does not also mean that every experience is going to be the same. But when it is me you are talking to, the problem is, I do not know how to carry out casual talks. I do not know what to talk about, what to ask, how to ask and many a time, how to respond. I can listen to you.
According to the usual way in view, I am boring and my talks are boring. I do not know how to crack jokes, I am not funny, I have very less sense of humour and I am serious. Many a time, there are chances that I cannot tolerate certain kinds of talks as well. I may get turned off, get offended and uninterested in between the conversation. I do not blame anyone else talking but my own self which is why I told in the beginning that it is better that we don't talk daily if you want my company a healthy and a happy one.
Calling up someone or texting somebody is a necessity when you genuinely want to rather than just for the sake of it. When you have something to talk to that person, when you have something to tell that person, when you have something to ask that person, when you have something to discuss with that person, it is absolutely needful. In the same way, being there for your friend when they need you is of utmost importance. It can even go for hours without noticing it. All I say, here, is that avoid texting when you know that you actually do not have anything to say but to pass the time. Speak to me only when you feel to do so. Communication is made to ensure a better understanding and for connecting with people. Keeping that basic purpose in mind, why do you want to do the contrary? Communicate, Keep Connecting and Offer A Happy Time.
I don't remember me talking to somebody on a daily basis and being happy. All the good friends now I count are people with whom I talk once in a while and being happy about it. It doesn't mean that you do not care about each other. One is doing one's own things all day and I don't want to disturb them often. When I say so, I mean the same for me as well. Texting all day to quite a number of people and this same process if goes on for a number of days leads to nothing but draining of energy and lack of topics to engage, ultimately to avoid talking to that person. I have experienced that kind. It does not also mean that every experience is going to be the same. But when it is me you are talking to, the problem is, I do not know how to carry out casual talks. I do not know what to talk about, what to ask, how to ask and many a time, how to respond. I can listen to you.
According to the usual way in view, I am boring and my talks are boring. I do not know how to crack jokes, I am not funny, I have very less sense of humour and I am serious. Many a time, there are chances that I cannot tolerate certain kinds of talks as well. I may get turned off, get offended and uninterested in between the conversation. I do not blame anyone else talking but my own self which is why I told in the beginning that it is better that we don't talk daily if you want my company a healthy and a happy one.
Calling up someone or texting somebody is a necessity when you genuinely want to rather than just for the sake of it. When you have something to talk to that person, when you have something to tell that person, when you have something to ask that person, when you have something to discuss with that person, it is absolutely needful. In the same way, being there for your friend when they need you is of utmost importance. It can even go for hours without noticing it. All I say, here, is that avoid texting when you know that you actually do not have anything to say but to pass the time. Speak to me only when you feel to do so. Communication is made to ensure a better understanding and for connecting with people. Keeping that basic purpose in mind, why do you want to do the contrary? Communicate, Keep Connecting and Offer A Happy Time.
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